You're not asking the best question... not to get too meta on you...but the answer you're trying to find is within you.

In other words, the question to ask is: Why do I do the things that I do???

Bc black women, just like black men or Asian women or white women..etc are all the same..

If you were trying to figure out why a Martian did what it did..that would probably be a real mystery..

But when you're talking about people..all you're really talking about is human beings